A change in evryones life....

I was again opening my account in a certain gaysite when a message pops up saying i got one message. So i opened it was from someone near my vicinity, i was amazed of the content of his profile, cause it answers to what is written on my profile.

If some happens to read my profile on that site you may made comments of sorry but, thats life im ok...i just wrote it there for the reason if holding to a little hope.

But thsi guy who message me wrote something that will make my mind realized eventhough hes a little late for that.

Heres the link to my profile-----------> http://www.guys4men.com/members/1262587/

and here are the contents of the guy profile....

ABOUT ME:OK HERE IT GOES, EVEN THOUGH MOST PEOPLE FORGET TO READ THIS AND GO DIRECTLTY FOR THE PICTURES, I'LL ATTEMPT TO FILL THIS SPACE. i can say i'm a CREATIVE creature..i follow what my heart desires..i listen to a different drum and let my PASSION run its course..i may be shy and unsure about many things about my life..but when it comes to my talent..i ride like the wind..i'm a guy who CELEBRATES & RESPECTS my talent as well as the talent of others.. ..i can also say that i'm an ACHIEVER..i have discipline and determination to work hard at a goal and actually reach it..i'm a bold young thing who thinks and acts outside the box of comfort..a brave soul who knows how to challenge his self.. Who I'd like to meet:"men/women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men/women don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy....... So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right person to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree."Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.- Captain Corelli's Mandolin**************************************** ********************The moment you have in your heart this extraordinary thing called love and feel the depth, the delight, the ecstasy of it, you will discover that for you the world is transform.**************************************** ********************"People cannot change who you really are. You just have to tell them and be honest about th real person behind you. You cannot hide in your cloak of deception forever. You desreve to be happy just by being yourself."**************************************** ********************To Love...Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But, sometimes a love lost is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring to life a relationship that just died a natural death. Set yourself free. Let your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still will not rain forever. One day the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over again. It's never too late. Remember, you may find love and lose it but, "WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER HAVE TO DIE WITH IT".Remember that you cannot be a redeemer all your life. The best way to weigh a relationship is out in the test of fire. You cannot be a sooner of your mistake forever. Remember, we all fail and make wrong decisions but our blunders are meant not to bury us deep in misery but to teach us the valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process.With love, we learn how to care and sacrifice. We learn to share and reach out. We learn to be unselfish and give more than we can. And when everything doesn't end well, we learn how it fells fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that "Life doesn't end where our heartaches begin".THERE IS NO FUTURE IN A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. It's true, there's life in love. But, there can still be life even after losing love if you leave the past behind and let your heart heal and give you the chance to find yourself again. The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning but in its consistency. Make a choice not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember that "HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE".There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon becomes part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad part of its when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves."YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BETTER OFF GIVING THAT THE DEDICATION AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING". Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow."IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEAR WASHES AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS BACK TO YOU". And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.A woman on the rebound could easily fall for sweeping emotions and be made to falsely believe that she finally stumbled upon the right man when what she just found is only someone to cover up for the love she lost. A man who makes promises with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them. "IT'S TRUE THAT LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER BUT IT IS CRAZY TO STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T EVEN CARE OR UNDERSTAND HOW WE FEEL".Loving someone is never a sin. It is what people do out of love that sometimes makes it all wrong. The selfish desire to want that person is what makes it a sin. Don't think only of your feelings for real love doesn't have a place for selfish people. When there is love, there is always sacrifice.When we love someone, we NEVER easily GIVE UP on that person. Even if we get hurt badly we always try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to understand and forgive. Loving too much doesn't hurt. It is when we expect this love to be reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and acceptance of the things we have done and when we are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the very same love that we once freely and happily offered."DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT. OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE MAN WHO WOULD MAKE LOVING WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE. Just like anything else, our love grows weak and extent. Beyond that, it withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies".God wakes us up in the midst of a storm to teach us a lesson. He takes away people we love, so we can learn to value love itself. He makes us cry so hard so we can see clearly when we open our eyes. He makes us bitter so we can realize that there is no genuine happiness if we think only of our needs and not of others.Relationships built on jealousy and selfishness is doomed from the very beginning. The hardest part of losing love is letting go and moving on. Most of us cry endlessly over things that could have been but never will be."God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives and only if we put our trust in Him we can learn to find joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows".In many failed relationships, separation comes as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship is imposed on us, but our choice to hold on is always beyond the control of circumstances.Letting go is a decision that can never be dictated on us. It is a resolve we make ourselves. Acceptance is the key to a new beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkness and lonely moments. There is always a hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try. "Losing someone we may not be a loss at all but a blessing because someone even more is yet to come".There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings to someone we love, but "we must always be sensitive to the signals that tell us when to rationalize and be sensible." There comes a time in our lives when we would fall for someone who wouldn't be as interested as we are because his attention is focused on someone else.There are many times when we love but don't get loved in return. There are times when the sign ahead says stop but we still stubbornly head on. We would say our love is unconditional, but if it really is, then we should never feel bad. But why do we get frustrated when love turns sour? Because we still subconsciously seek acceptance and assurance from the people we care about.Being in love can be the most wonderful thing we could experience but if the feeling begins to consume our whole beings, then we have to stop and let our minds and not our hearts dictate our actions. Only when we learn to accept our fate and understand the meaning of our failures we can truly go on with life without having to look back and cry over the things that could have been but will never be......(NABASA KO LANG YAN AND I JUST WANNA SHARE IT WITH YOU GUYS..IT'S VERY INTERESTING...)

After reading this hope youll leave a comment about it.......

Truly what he wrotes are true...

Anways im done of my past already cause i proven that the person im waiting for has someone else.

HERE ARE THE PICS DURING PAHIYAS FESTIVAL

I have come across the funniest video from you tube, watch it. Beneath my blogsite...
Hope you enjoy it

Pahiyas Festival

"It was may 15 when i first witness the famous PAHIYAS FESTIVAL of Lucban Queon, before that a group of friends with their family invited me, at first i was'nt sure because i lack budget for it, until my bf says that hes near Lucban, and its a great opportunity for both of us to see each other, and so i agree to come.....It was a long ride ...

5:00 AM Departure from Sta rosa City Laguna

6:00 AM We're passing the zigzag road of the so called Bitukang manok, its like baguio.

7:25AM Arrival at Lucban, Quezon


The time we arrived eventhough its early seems to be late already, there were lots of cars parking already and were just lucky to have someone who got a place in there for car park.

The views and place was amazing...so we took our brunch and started heading downtown for phot sessions, that time as well all of us have plan to go swimming, but when we got there it was raining... and alos i did text my bf that i already arrived in Lucban, so he replied that i should enjoy first hell pick me up by the afternoon......

The downtown was so alive and colorfull, it was the first time i laid eyes on those colorfull "kiping" hunged on houses including some of their harvest with designs, actually it was a "pagandhan ng bahay" a contest. The most colorfull will win.

Photos are at the site of my blog

After photosession, we went to kamay ni HESUS, it was a sacred place built on a high hill where there is a man made Way of the Cross up the mountain with i guessed 375 steps up, and on the top was a large statue of Jesus Christ arms wide open....It was a really a good experience especially if you reach the top...

Then we went swimming just in front of Kamay ni hesus in batis Aramin.

i'm inviting you to experience what i have ecxperienced in Lucban Quezon, Promise you will not regret.....

THE WORLD WITHOUT LOVE

The world is a merry-go-round

Of joy and sorrow, of ups and downs

When turmoil conceals the earth and chaos greets the eye

The heart cries with sadness and weep for a lost one

Because LOVE is joy.



The world is black and life has lost its meaning

The spirit weakers with its burdens; flowers lost their lusters

Hard times seem forever, tears have no end

Destitution laden and with faith dying

Because love is hope.



When people refuse to listen and quarrel in petty arguments

Friendly relations are broken, rules and laws violated

Hostilities dread every nations and lives threatened

And with pains and worries every heart is filled because love is peace.



The world without love

Is a world without joy, hope, and peace.

HOMOSEXUALITY

" I was opening my account in a certain gaysite, when i come across this video that talks about the discrimmination of homosexuality in Muslin countries, and it was so divastating to hear and know how these people treat their fellow human beings......I'm not pointing to all Muslims, but im citing characters as a human. I'ts not our fault being like this, we're just expressing what we feel rather than keeping it to ourselves and suffer emotional depression about it. I myself admit that I'm a homosexual. I'm proud to say I am, but this does not stop my parents to believe in me and love me, in this video there was a story of shemale wherein she was beaten in the hands of those people close to him, his fmily. Family in the sense of the word, means unity and in unity there is love and understanding and acceptance.. but why is there are parents that can't understand what their children have been going through? Have you ever asked yourselves if you lacked guidance to your children? Have you ever asked why my child turns out like this? It was so depressing watchig this video, especially in muslim countries where in life has agreater value for them. Heres the video hope you find symphaty like i do.

http://www.lifeout.com/videos.php?video=1214846127-TO0DV3

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10 WAYS TO LOST WEIGHT

I made a research with regards to losing weight, commonly this is the problem of most women. and heres what i found:

The truth is that, while eating healthier and slipping in exercise takes some work, it doesn't require heroic effort. Making just a few simple lifestyle changes can pack a big weight loss punch.

WebMD spoke to weight loss experts and ordinary people who have figured out relatively painless ways to lose weight or keep it off. Here are their top 10 tips on how to lose weight without trying too hard.

1. Lighten the Foods You Already Love

One of the easiest ways to cut back without feeling denied is to switch to lower-calorie versions of the foods you crave. A pizza tastes just as good with reduced-fat cheese. And when you garnish low-fat crackers or low-fat ice cream with your favorite toppers, who notices the missing calories?

The key is to look for lighter versions of any product that contains fat or sugar, says the WebMD Weight Loss Clinic's "Recipe Doctor" Elaine Magee, MPH, RD, author of Fry Light, Fry Right! She recommends shopping for light sour cream, mayonnaise, and salad dressings; less-sugar preserves; and unsweetened frozen fruit.

And lighten up by switching to diet soda or light beer, or by adding a spritz of seltzer to your wine. Hate low-cal drinks? Try mixing your favorite beverages with a splash of a low-cal option, then increase the ratio as your taste buds adjust.

2. Share and Share Alike

With the massive meals served at so many American restaurants, it's easy to go Dutch -- with the dinner plate.

"When we go out, I often share a meal with my wife," says David Anthony, an information technology consultant from Atlanta. "We've been known to split a dessert, even a pint of beer."

You can share more than just a meal out. Why not double up on a bicycle built for two? Go halves on the cost of a personal trainer? Maybe split a gym membership?

"When people come in together they're more apt to encourage one another," says Lorinda Naegle, manager of a Curves gym in Oregon, which, like many fitness centers, offers 2-for-1 membership specials.

Half the cost, twice the motivation -- a steal of a deal.

3. Forget About Working Out

If the word "exercise" inspires you to creative avoidance, then avoid it. The trick to enjoying a workout is to "never call it working out," says Atlanta information technology consultant Brian LaRose.

For example, "Most folks enjoy sex without the idea that it may be a good calorie burner," says LaRose, and yet, among other things, sex can be a great workout.

So burn calories, invigorate your muscles, and lose weight by beachcombing, shooting hoops, riding bikes, grass-skiing, snow-shoeing, hiking, playing Frisbee, or even enjoying sex. After all, a rose by any other name ...

4. Add, Don't Subtract

Try adding foods to your diet instead of subtracting them. Go for healthy goodies like summer-fresh fruit and garden-crisp veggies. And be sure to select things you love, like deep-red cherries or crunchy snow peas.

Then slip those favorite fruits into your bag lunch, your breakfast cereal, and your afternoon snack; add the veggies into stews and sauces, and as a complement to lean meals.

Focus on these delicious additions and you just may find yourself subtracting a junk food standby simply because you're enjoying your new, healthier favorites.

5. Go Walk-About

Writer Carol Schmidt says healthier meals, the support of her partner, and walking were all key factors in her 150-pound weight loss.

Of course "living in a city designed for walking is a great help," says the resident of San Miguel de Allende, Mexico. "When we lived in Phoenix … we put 40,000 miles a year on the car."

Now instead of driving everywhere, the pair does their shopping on foot, getting in two to seven miles a day. And the car? It's lucky to see a few thousand miles a year.

Even if your city isn't as convenient as San Miguel, try these tips for slipping in more steps:

• Do your shopping locally.
• Trade your power mower for a push version.
• Park your car at the back of the lot.
• Sweep the drive instead of using a leaf-blower.
• Get off the bus a few stops earlier.
• Hike the mall, being sure to hit all the levels.
• Take the stairs every chance you get.
• Enjoy a post-dinner stroll.

6. Tune In, Tone Up

As part of its Go Red for Women campaign, the American Heart Association (AHA) recommends toning up while you tune in to your favorite TV shows.

There are lots of ways to do this, says Nieca Goldberg, MD, AHA spokesperson and chief of women's cardiac care at Lenox Hill Hospital in New York.

"Dance to the music" when you tune in to programs "like American Idol or your favorite music show," says Goldberg, Or get fired (up!) practicing "your cardio boxing while watching The Apprentice."

Slip in a little strength training by lifting sodas instead of drinking them. "Use those cans or bottles as hand weights for bicep curls," says Goldberg. Or do triceps dips from the edge of the couch.

It doesn't matter exactly what you do, so long as you're up and active. Aim for at least 15 minutes, says the AHA. But who knows? If you get really engrossed, you just might outlast the last survivor.

7. Skip a Meal (Out):

It's so tempting to grab a restaurant meal for lunch. But if the maître d' knows your name, you may be packing on more pounds than you realize.

"If someone else was paying, I was going," says LaRose. He was just fine with that until one day a good friend patted his stomach and said, "I see you're gainfully employed."

That's when LaRose realized just how many calories were coming from those high-caliber -- and high-fat -- lunches out. "Now I just say no," he says.

If you can't say no to every business lunch, try saying yes to wiser choices, like grilled chicken, roasted summer vegetables, or an appetizer as an entree.

8. Size Matters

Eating less without feeling denied is as close as your dinnerware.

"A lot of eating is psychological," says Don R. Powell, PhD, president of the American Institute for Preventive Medicine, which provides health and wellness guides to hospitals, insurance agencies, and HMOs.

While a small portion served on a large plate can leave you craving more, a smaller plate gives the visual cue that you already have more.

Basically "you're tricking yourself into being satisfied with less," says Powell. "You simply won't put as much food on a smaller plate."

And don't forget smaller bowls, cups, and spoons. Try savoring a bowl of ice cream with a baby spoon, recommends Powell. Not only does the pleasure last longer, but your body has time to register the food you've eaten.

9. Get Involved

When your weight loss efforts lead to boredom or too much self-focus, get occupied with something else. "When I'm not busy, I eat more than I need," says Florida inventor Kenneth Fry.

His answer: take a break from the magazines and TV shows that so often showcase tempting treats, and get occupied with things that have nothing to do with food.

For some, that might mean becoming involved with local politics, discovering yoga, or enjoying painting. Or maybe you want to help a child with a science project, repaint the bedroom, organize a hike, or take a class.

The key: have a life outside of weight loss.

10. Lose It Today, Keep It Off Tomorrow

Finally, be patient. While cultivating that virtue isn't exactly painless, it may help to know that keeping weight off can be easier than taking it off.

That's the result reported by The National Weight Control Registry. In a study of 784 people who had all lost and kept off at least 30 pounds, nearly half -- 42% -- reported that maintaining their weight loss was easier than the loss itself.

So if you crave the results reported by these successful "losers" -- improved self-confidence, a boost in mood, and better health -- cultivate patience. You may find your way to sweet (and nearly painless) weight loss success.

Food Craves

"Hmmm the sweet smell of foods are on the air, Welcome to my blog site, I'm Chris and in here you'll find out blogs on deffirent VARITIES of topic espcially FOODS"